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April 15, 2015

Birthdays Come and Go

Snow! And we haven't even had a frost here in Ashley yet. The snow in the photo is covering Sugar Loaf hill on the Port Hills around Christchurch - 14th April. It had melted away by early afternoon. 

Until now Autumn has been mellow here. After a long, dry and windy summer, the weather softened to cool, foggy mornings and warm, calm days. 

Last year Autumn was a miserable aberration so I've been pleased to see the Indian Summer character of Autumn return here. 

This butterfly stonecrop flowered handsomely in amongst the foliage of an old fashioned rose - making a pleasing visual pairing not of my design. I don't know which variety of Sedum spectabile this is because it came in a garden bouquet for Elwin's funeral, but it is a good deep pink.

Yesterday was Elwin's birthday and in our school holiday meanderings, Kitty and I remembered him with quiet asides. Later Bryony joined us for a night at the pictures and we imagined he would have enjoyed this family time together.

Another autumn birthday in our famly is Bryony's on 
13th March. She turned 21 last month.
We spent her special day together eating brunch and morning tea - in that order - at The Colombo, which is a classy city shopping mall grown up out of the earthquakes. We ate our brunch off a billiard table and over-indulged on macaroons.

Later we were drawn by the beautiful weather, to the Christchurch Botanic Gardens, where Bryony photographed this monarch butterfly feeding on elecampane...

and we loosely recreated a photo from her infancy in the rose garden. 

The following day - after attending to small, Great Gatsby, details -

It was party time.

As mother-in-charge I was nervous about holding a 21st birthday party at home - but Bryony loves making events happen here - and I needn't have worried. There were no gate-crashers, no unruly or messy behaviour, and nearly all the guests made a lot of effort with their costumes. Bryony's friends who so often make their own music, set up a sound system and I enjoyed the novelty of seeing our period-styled living room heaving like a night club. 

What was a problem of sorts was an empty water tank. Discovered the night before, and due to an unidentified leak, there was no way to fill the tank to a usable level, before the 50 or so guests arrived. So water was carted to washing points and particularly the toilet, and all the guests were given toilet-use instructions as they arrived, which they followed, bless them. 
The leak is fixed now, but I have no doubt there will be other challenges to face as Autumn turns to Winter, here in Lady Mondegreen's Secret Garden.

Butterfly stonecrop, ice plant - Hylotelephium spectabile var (formerly Sedum spectabile)
Elecampane, horse-heal, elf dock, marchalan - Inula helenium
Red rose - Rosa 'Lavaglut'


Cro Magnon said...

Your Sedum looks the same as one I have here. It grows in the most inappropriate places; usually in stone walls.

Belated good wishes to your daughter. Oh to be 21 again.

Steve said...

As always I am taken by how beautiful your surroundings are; you must count your blessings every day.

Lady Mondegreen's Secret Garden said...

Cro Magnon: Our gardens both enjoy hot dry summers - Heaven for stonecrops!

Steve: Oh I do count my blessings, though my photographs could be said to show my world through rose-coloured glasses...

Susan Heather said...

The party sounds wonderful in those surroundings. The brunch and morning tea sounded great as well.

I wonder whether we will return to the Indian summer. I hope so. I have the little pot belly stove lit at present.

Lovely photos. Hugs

Lady Mondegreen's Secret Garden said...

Thank you Susan Heather - that birthday time was quite memorable. Glad you appreciate the photos too. I thought Bryony's birthday butterfly was pretty special. Hugs to you too :-)

Andrew MacLaren-Scott said...

I enjoyed having a look around your blog. Am unlikely to ever make it to New Zealand. The joy of blog visiting...

Lady Mondegreen's Secret Garden said...

Lovely to have you visit Andrew. I see that Spring is in full flower in your Scottish garden :-)

The Sagittarian said...

Looks daughter will be 21 next March! Hoping to have our own home back by then...